1 00:00:02,016 --> 00:00:03,366 He did date one 2 00:00:03,383 --> 00:00:04,533 or two girls before me. 3 00:00:04,716 --> 00:00:07,166 Told you, no man is perfect. 4 00:00:07,366 --> 00:00:08,633 Now, lesson two: 5 00:00:08,916 --> 00:00:11,366 Don't agree to be his girlfriend too soon. 6 00:00:11,383 --> 00:00:12,800 He's on probation, get it? 7 00:00:13,099 --> 00:00:16,416 Make him do stuff, food delivery, bubble tea, 8 00:00:16,433 --> 00:00:18,616 errands, test him first. 9 00:00:19,016 --> 00:00:20,416 Isn't that kind of leading him on? 10 00:00:20,433 --> 00:00:21,783 Would he even go for that? 11 00:00:22,183 --> 00:00:24,816 Just say you're "building the connection." 12 00:00:25,366 --> 00:00:26,500 And lesson three, 13 00:00:26,866 --> 00:00:28,666 when you're chatting, 14 00:00:28,683 --> 00:00:29,899 find a way to mention 15 00:00:29,916 --> 00:00:30,833 your bestie's 16 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:32,083 boyfriend 17 00:00:32,100 --> 00:00:33,533 does all these amazing things for her. 18 00:00:33,983 --> 00:00:35,600 Why would I say that? 19 00:00:36,366 --> 00:00:37,799 The hidden message is: 20 00:00:37,816 --> 00:00:40,683 he should treat you just as well. 21 00:00:41,083 --> 00:00:43,566 Designer bags, diamond rings, flowers, 22 00:00:43,683 --> 00:00:45,500 if she gets them, why not you? 23 00:00:46,483 --> 00:00:48,100 Then why not just say it straight? 24 00:00:48,116 --> 00:00:49,533 Why play games? 25 00:00:50,633 --> 00:00:51,799 With that mindset, 26 00:00:51,816 --> 00:00:53,200 you'll get eaten alive in relationships.