subtitles/Subtitle_EN/Cherishvideo_JL_7.srt

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Lately, you've seemed a little off.

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Did you have a fight with your parents?

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I get it, I've been there too.

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Back in the day, my parents and I

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used to argue a lot.

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When I was younger,

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I thought they nagged too much, tried to control everything,

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and didn't understand me at all.

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Like once,

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I wanted to join this outdoor summer camp,

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but they were worried about everything

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and flat-out said no.

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I was so mad, I didn't talk to them for days.

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But later on,

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when I faced

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challenges on my own,

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I finally understood.

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They worried because they love me.

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They just wanted to protect me,

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to keep me from getting hurt.

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I remember when I quit my job

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and felt awful.

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I went home,

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and they had hot food waiting,

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and comforting words ready.

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That's when it hit me,

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they'd always

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been there for me,

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quietly caring in the background.

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I'm sure it's the same with you and your parents.

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Maybe they're just not great at expressing themselves,

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or

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maybe they see things differently.

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But one thing's for sure:

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they love you, always.

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Try talking to them more.

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Put yourself in their shoes.

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You might

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end up understanding them better.

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You're smart,

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I know you'll figure out how to connect with them.

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Alright,

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I'll stop now.

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I don't want you thinking I'm being too naggy.

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Just remember,

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whenever something's bothering you,

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you can always talk to me.

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We'll figure it out together.

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Bye for now.